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"Child Marriage Free" in Bangladesh

Guest bloggers - 08.08.11

Naomi Williams profileNaomi Williams is Plan UK's Campaigns Officer and manages the Because I am a Girl campaign. The campaign has launched a nationwide action to end early and forced marriage

“Child Marriage Free”

These were the words on a hand-written poster on a school wall in the small village of Laxmipur, just outside Bangladesh’s sprawling capital of Dhaka.

14 year old Fatima is proudly showing me this poster, explaining how she has worked hard towards achieving this powerful declaration. Fatima has campaigned using community theatre, petitions and public meetings, all with the aim of ensuring girls and boys can be walking to school and not up the aisle. She has herself managed to avoid child marriage and is continuing to enjoy her schooling. “My favourite subject is English and I want to be a teacher when I grow up”, she tells me.

I’m on a visit to Bangladesh with four UK parliamentarians, Mary Macleod, Debbie Abrahams, Lord Tariq Ahmad and Virendra Kumar Sharma. All members of the All Party Parliamentary Group for Debt, Aid and Trade.

“It is remarkable to see the knowledge and awareness about rights, health and other issues in women and children in such a remote village in Bangladesh”, says Virendra.

Fatima then shows us the simple mud houses that she and her community live in. They provide essential shelter and coolness right now in the middle of the monsoon. It’s boiling hot, but we are enjoying a brief spell of sunshine in contrast to the relentless rain that has poured down until now.

Mingming Remata Evora, Plan Bangladesh’s Country Director, tells us that a shocking two thirds of girls in Bangladesh are married before the legal age of 18. Plan has found that girls like Fatima can be powerful advocates for ending early and forced marriage. Laxmiper is one of five villages in Gazipur that Plan, in cooperation with the local community and government, has supported to become ‘Child Marriage Free', affecting around 30,000 girls.

MP Visit to BangladeshThe MPs and I are saying our good-byes to Fatima and her village to the sound of a group of school children waving and singing ‘We are children, but we will develop our village. We will overcome all the problems and we will build our future. Bangladesh, Bangladesh, Bangladesh...”

If ever there was a moment which encapsulated why we're fighting for girls to walk to school and not up the aisle, this was it. 

We can't do it alone, so please lend your support and Take the Vow to end early and forced marriage today.

Naomi Williams

Comments (3)

  • 18.11.11 (10:12), fmog wrote:
    Having had a painfull, extended labour with my first child I am filled with horror that girls as young as 13 have to go through this. I find it so hard to believe that loving parents can permit this to happen to their daughters however desperate their plight, especially their mothers who probably experienced the same themselves.
  • 02.07.12 (20:48), Sanjoy Karmakar wrote:
    We wish early child marriage will be abolish forever in everywhere in Bangladesh. Specially in the rural areas, this is due to lacking of social awareness and education. Because in Bangladesh in rural areas parents thought it's a burden of having girl children rather than boy. They thought a boy can earn money and feed them at their later age,but girl can't do this. This is due to lacking of education and social awareness. The day is nearer when girls and boys will be treated equally not only in the urban areas but in the rural area also.
  • 01.11.12 (10:57), GymJams wrote:
    I understand but do not accept the concept of child marriage. Only education can remove the ignorance of a child's potential to contribute to their society and the world they live in. A society is as progressive as its education policy for women, I believe I read somewhere. I escaped a forced marriage myself, at the age of 18 and in the UK, having been born and lived my whole live here. However my parents were uneducated and trapped by their traditions and cultural values, which clashed with mine. We must do all we can to make education fair and accessible to girls as well as boys.
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